I posted a comment on a short video that quotes: My therapist told me: "The biggest sign of childhood trauma is trying to convince people who are hurting you to treat you better rather than you walking away."

The biggest sign of mischievous manipulating therapists is this thing: It's very important, it's not a detail, they're very aware of this and they're consciously silencing everyone, fully aware of the fact that they can only do this because of the authority that comes with their position of power. Which means that they're abusing their power, but that's the least of their worries. Mischievous manipulating therapists know exactly which goals they want to reach for, and how to reach for them, and this quote is exactly something they would say to confuse people about what's really going on. This quote is the most effective way to silence people with childhood trauma who still get what it's all about. It's not about trying to convince people that hurt you to treat you better rather than just walking away. That's actually switching responsibilities. To discern good and bad, and that bad, evil, wicked people, whatever, should know that hurting people is bad, and should recognize their mistakes, and mend their ways is something the people that hurt other people are responsible for, and also their friends and everyone around them, it's not something the focking victim's responsible for! Stop silencing everyone who's making people aware of the fact that people that hurt other people - I'm sorry, there are a few exceptions - are protected by an army of wicked cruel people who are used to making everyone believe that the people who are hurting their victims are nice people, WHICH MAKES IT IMPOSSIBLE FOR THE VICTIMS TO WALK AWAY! It allows the people on the side of the oppressor's to condemn the victims when they walk away, and everyone knows that! Everyone knows that oppressor and victim are in a conflict, and the oppressor will condemn all of his victim's decisions, even walking away. Everyone who tries to silence anybody who's trying to make you aware of the truth is on the wrong side, no matter if they are therapists, men, women, black, white, young or old. Quit your job, and don't think you're healing anyone, because you're making it worse. As a matter of fact, victims with childhood trauma carry a lot of anger, and it's the first thing we should deal with, but you're doing the exact opposite, you're denying it. Anger is a weapon. First get rid of the weapon. There's no healing at all as long as there's a weapon.