What women don't get about good men is mostly important (above all) at the age when people start dating. Most women, in my opinion, see caring men that really want to invest in a good relationship (because they think it's the most important of all things) as losers. Why? Because their minds are usually thinking instead of acting, and those women don't see what they think, only what they do. Young men are like computers that are processing too much data, they suffer from slowdown, like the computers. The young women, as far as I remember, choose young men, who don't give a fuck. Those men are outgoing, they just ask themselves what they need to do to be popular, and the answer is being outgoing, so that's what they do. Those are the men who get the girls. Me being a loser is just the world's point of view, not my point of view. I don't consider having a relationship as the most important of all things anymore.