Losing virginity is considered a sexual act, but can we please focus on the cause of losing virginity. This is the cause: nervousness, disagreements, frustrations, energy, disappointments, all kinds of conflicts, and all kinds of things that happen to you, me, and the neighbor, every day, from the day we are born until the day we die. Let's sum it up by saying losing virginity is caused by life itself. What is sex about? It's about connecting with all kinds of emotions and feelings, it's about feeling like a father, a mother, and also a kid. Sex is about a feeling of being connected with ancestors as well as descendants. I can't approve of people that recommend you to stop masturbating, because what they are saying is basically: stop being connected with life. It's not a good idea. That's the answer to the question: why do we masturbate? You should ask yourself this question, and not only should you ask yourself the question, you should also come up with an answer.