I mean i COULD blog EVERYDAY about the frustration that is my family but it's not like they are the end all and be all of my universe. I have a live beyond them (thank god) and I refuse to be the bitter blogger.

So to avoid of this blog to become a hate blog I either don't add a message or I try to look for subjects I can vent about wondering if there is someone out there thinking, "Omg, I know right?"

I guess I COULD shed some light on my younger sister. She is a jealous and lazy person. She was the youngest of the nest and pretty much everything was laid out for her. She had to but snap her fingers and her little precious ass would be served. I always kept telling my mother if she kept spoiling her she would turn her into a spoiled brat And no matter how smart I may have been back then, I could have NEVER anticipated what she would really grow into.....

- Lazy

- Slutty

- Fat (I don't judge people on their looks, but eating and binging untill you way over 100 kilo's and then crying that you are fat to then eat some more.....along with poor personal hygene - body odour - yellow teeth - greasy hair COME ON)

- Poor hygene

- No education or want to restart her education

- In and out of jobs and its NEVER her fault

- Poor with money

- A none involved mother to her child

- Jealous

- Victimizes herself on everything (she is always shit out of luck and everyone else gets what they want - NO - they WORK for what they want)

This is just a small list because I could go on and on and on ..... and though it may seem harsh to talk about my sister that way she doesn't give me any reason not to. She stays with her boyfriend (who'm she doesn't love and isn't fysicaly attracted too) because his family has money and that has perks for her. The child they have most likely ISN'T HIS child. Happy when other people suffer, jealous when other people thriumph..... finds it ok to single out other people from social events but throws a fit if she isn't invited ......

And that's just like 10 % of the info on WHO and HOW she is.....

SO why I am saying this is because in the summer vacation we took her and her family along with us to several things. Theme parcs, our vacation at a water resort, we treated them, we treated my niece.... we had them over to swim in our swimming pool, for dinner....etx etc...... her boyfriend starts a job so they would be good in money and THERE went any form of contact and better yet, there came the excluding and gossiping...... You see in her mind they didn't need us anymore, they had their own money now. Maybe a year ago this would have broken my heart but this year I had a serious crash course on "breaking emotionally with your family because they all dropped you," Due to the evil creature that is my mother I was in a fight with 95% of my family, and even though I begged my sisters to stay neutral, they didn't and chose her side. So they pretty much FORCED me to move on. So when my younger sister started attacking ME on the fact that I wasn't talking to her, I put the record straight (which I wouldn't have done  a year ago) 

I made it clear that I work, I have 4 kids, a marriage and a household....that I don't go with out of sight out of heart, that when I don't invite her that it doesn't mean she's not welcome. But that with adulthood time grows slim. 

Then she said I pretended like I didn't need my sisters anymore. And I said I don't act like it, it IS that I don't need my sisters anymore and I told her it had EVERYTHING to do with THEIR actions and choices. While THEY were having get togethers and family parties, and going on with THEIR lives, gossiping about me, THEY forced ME to move on....and even though it was HELL in the beginning, with the help of my husband I came through. Slowly but surely. They forced me to see live still works with them not there, and it could still be a happy life, and NOW they want to guilttrip me on the fact that I don't seem to need them anymore????

I DON'T THINK SO !

So after that argument I didn't hear from her at all anymore. In the mean time she got fired. I got rid of my FB - account after taking off my pictures (hurray for me !!!! I feel so much happier now I swear =O ) 

After a while my sister found out we are going to a kids show in february, and she wanted to tag along. I gave her the contact info and the prices (i'm not paying) and she was going to ask for seats next to ours.... Then a week later I get a message saying she won't be able to come Why? Because of a bill dating from 2012 (!!!!) of a sum of 1600 euro !!!! 

They never got the bill and she never bothered to ask, so now she has to pay up 280 euro per month untill july to pay it off, while she has no work and only her boyfriend works. I try not to have an opinion on this but the point i'm trying to get to, and you'll chuckle with this, is

I got a text message from her this weekend asking if they could come by some time because and I quote "they miss us" 

Give it a minute.........

I'm sure what they miss more is our money =D 

And THAT people is a glimpse of my life, and my family

and with my luck, I'll never move away from them and I'll always be kinds stuck with them....