Dr.

Phil on Cheating Suspicions He' s been working late nights, physically distant and you think he might be cheating. Television host and author, tells one i. Mag viewer what to do. & # 160; Dear Dr. Phil, My husband has been coming home from work very late and I' m concerned he may be seeing someone else.

Do I confront him? Dr. Phil: You are entitled to know what is going on with your husband, there' s no question about it.

One thing about successful relationships is they are open; they’ re transparent. And trust me, people who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. So if you’ ve got a partner that won’ t be forthcoming with you that should be a warning sign.

But at the same time you don’ t want to be just creating jealousy out of nowhere. If there' s a warning sign - if he' s not where he usually is or things don’ t feel right to you, trust your gut instinct and check it out. But deal with the facts; this isn’ t about some kind of mind reading. Find out what' s going on. & # 160; For more relationship advice check out .

With its ever- changing and reasonably priced menu, Shikago lets foodies sample Asian specialties without skipping a car payment for the privilege. Its simple design, chunky wooden tables, and ambient- modern music help draw a mixed crowd: power suits by day, and hip up- and- comers by night. The lunch- only bento boxes, grilled miso- glazed scallops, and sizzling platters of meat or tofu are excellent.

Look for the entrance on the corner of Adams and La.

Salle or you might miss it. www. shikagorestaurant. com.

Closed weekends.

During San Francisco' s Barbary Coast days, operagoers smoked cigars, didn' t check their revolvers, and expressed their appreciation with " shrill whistles and savage yells, " as one observer put it. All the old opera houses were destroyed in the 1906 quake, but lusty support for opera continued. The San Francisco Opera didn' t have a permanent home until the War Memorial Opera House was inaugurated in 1932 with a performance of Modeled after its European counterparts, the building has a vaulted and coffered ceiling, marble foyer, two balconies, and a huge silver art- deco chandelier that resembles a sunburst.

The San Francisco Opera performs here from September through December and in summer; the opera house hosts the San Francisco Ballet from February through May, with December performances. www. sfwmpac. org.