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    16-02-2009
    Klik hier om een link te hebben waarmee u dit artikel later terug kunt lezen.Wereldmeerdaagse Brasschaat
    Vorige week heb ik enkele namiddagen als vrijwilliger meegespeeld tijdens de Wereldmeerdaagse in Brasschaat.
    Het was echt een heel toffe ervaring, en vooral ook erg nuttig.
    Hier is de link naar het filmpje... en ze zoeken nog steeds vrijwilligers voor de rest van deze week én voor de volgende editie ;-)

    http://www.indymedia.be/nl/node/7217

    16-02-2009 om 12:57 geschreven door Joke  


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    Hi!

    At this very moment, I am uploading more pictures of my 6 weeks in paradise.. So soon you'll find the new link here.

    I didn't yet receive the results of the test, but I'm still very confident about the results.. so no worries!

    Last thursday I went to a job interview.. I thought it was okay, but apparently not enough. They are interested in me, but they just don't have a project that would suit me...

    I just keep on looking...

    16-02-2009 om 12:31 geschreven door Joke  


    10-02-2009
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    Yes!

    Today I had my first recruitment test.. and it was OK!

    10-02-2009 om 14:58 geschreven door Joke  


    09-02-2009
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    Only 22 of 200... because the uploading is so SLOW

    http://good-times.webshots.com/slideshow/569982800pnKzgy

    09-02-2009 om 12:12 geschreven door Joke  


    04-02-2009
    Klik hier om een link te hebben waarmee u dit artikel later terug kunt lezen.Day 1: the nature of the horse
    Do your thinking at night, and your feeling during the day

    This day, I...
    *Charted my horse's horsenality
    *Learned/reviewed the 8 principles of Parelli Natural Horsemanship
    *Played me & my shadow
    *demanded respect during feeding time

    What thresholds did my horse have?
    The entrance of the playground, didn't feel like going to investigate that area

    What surprised me about my horse?
    He's really curious, high energy

    3 Things I want to think about tomorrow:
    1. Haltering: build & maintain quality
    2. Try more different catching games
    3. Slow & right beats fast & wrong!

    CONFIDENCE - CURIOSITY - SENSITIVITY - DIGNITY - OBEDIENCE - EXUBERANCE

    Domestication
    The horse was domesticated 4000 years ago. At first for their meat and milk, later to work in agriculture.
    Later on they were used for wars. Since then people started with genetically engeneering, so their horses would be better than those of the enemy. Breeds started to develop, for their endurance and strength. This was also the period were saddles and stirrups were invented, tools to brace. The Greek general Xenofon has written the first work about the horse as a tool for the military, and nowadays there are still dressage schools like the Spanish Riding school, which is a remaining product of that idea.
    A third reason for domestication was transportation, to deliver mail or food for exemple. Some of these animals escaped, like the mustangs. They're hated by farmers, because their desire to make a herd is so big that they still steel domesticated horses out of their pastures.
    If we overlook the history of the horse, it's only been domesticated for a very short period of time....
    It doesn't take long to turn a domestic horse back into a wild horse, because they're still very close to their roots.

    Survival of the fittest
    We all know this law of nature: the one who addapts himself the best to a new situation, survives... There's an everlasting natural selection going on, and only the fastest, cleverest and healthiest creatures survive.

    The two teams
    In this competition, there are 2 teams: predators and prey animals.
    Predators, like a lion or a wolf, are born to kill prey animals: their eyes are close to eachother so they can focus on a prey. They often hunt in groups for convenience, but they'll always try to get the best bite. They want to survive as an individual.
    Prey animals are born to not be killed by predators: their eyes are to the side of their head, so they are very well equiped to register every suspicious movement. They move in herds, often with the youngest animals in the middle and the old and weak on the outside. They all want to survive if possible, but their natural mechanism works that the old and weak ones will die first. Survival of the species is more important.

    The game of nature
    The game plays itself: the one who's the fastest, strongest, cleverest, and the most explosive wins. If you ever saw a documentary on African wildlife, you surely noticed how close predators can come to a herd, without immediately chasing them away... That's because the herd animals feel their focus. In nature, energy is money! It's no use for them to run away and waste valuable energy when they run into another pack of predators who's waiting for them at the next stop. No, they just continue like their noze is bleeding, but in the meanwhile they're thinking their way out. The best way for them to survive is slowly sneak away, without a predator even notices it. After all, they know predators aren't going to throw themselves in the herd and take a lucky shot. Their energy is way to valuable too, they're observing the herd first and pick an easy victim.
    So the first stage is the game is: who's the cleverest?

    Predators plan their attack, but once they're in attack modus, the adrenaline rushes through their veins to maximise their body strength. This takes a lot of energy. A smart predator will wait until he can do a surprise attack, his changes are bigger when the prey is just scratching his ear. If the prey animal is attentive enough and notices the attacking predator, it has some seconds in its advance. Its energy goes up as well, and runs for it's life. The time between the moment the predator starts to attack and the moment the prey animal runs away is crucial for the game. This stage is defined by who's the most explosive?

    After that stage all activity from both teams is going to their feet: they run for their lifes... both of them! A predator only has about 5 attempts to win a game before he starts getting too weak to ever catch a prey again, and is bound to die a slow and painfull death. The one who has the most endurance wins this part. This stage is called who's the fastest?

    The finals start when there's an open fight... everything is allowed from both teams and usually the one with the most athleticism wins. Sometimes a prey animal can escape, by kicking and biting... and then pulling back as quick as possible.  Who's the strongest?

    Men are predators, we're in the opposit team of nature.

    So what's the deal?
    A week after the course I came back home and saw a documentary on National Geographic. I was really amazed by how long, and how close the lions could hang around the herd of zebras... Just like they were almost part of the herd. I was thinking about where this fits in the whole prey animal - predator relationship thing? How can they get so close to a lion and not freak out?
    I was thinking about how deep this law of nature is... Horses and humans are not so civilised or domesticated as we think...
    So can it be that horses just hang around us because they feel like they're in stage 1 of the nature game? Can it be that the so called partnership we'd like is just an illusion? I've been struggling with this for a couple of days, but then I remembered John saying:
    If you can't read the behavior, you can always ask yourself: Is he acting like a partner?
    Horses who are acting like a prey animal are not partners, but then again...  I guess a good mare teaches her foal to be an excellent prey animal.
    We are the natural enemies of horses, but can we convince them that we are not acting like predators but like partners? Can we act like partners and not like predators? After all, we are raised to be good predators.
    Can we overcome a game that's as old as life itself? Isn't this the most difficult thing in the world?

    Maybe it's just a dream, but it would be beautiful if we can build towards it by using love, language and leadership. I think the most important part of the journey to reach horsemanship is to release everything that's predator behavior, so they can release everything that's prey animal behavior. I have a long way to go.

    PS: This all fits in principle 1: horsemanship is natural & principle 4: horses & humans have mutual responsibilities: don't act like a predator/prey animal, act like a partner.

    PS: Did you notice how each horsenality comes forward in each stage of the game?

    04-02-2009 om 15:37 geschreven door Joke  


    01-02-2009
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    The day started with the introduction of the faculty members: Cathy, John, Avery, Julia and Lea as support.
    Then John continued with giving us some outlines for the rest of the day, and how to set things up for success during this course.
    He told us their task was to make us feel uncomfortable... they'd never come to us unless we're in danger... but they're very happy to answer our questions as long as they start with HOW... I knew this already from the previous course, and was now fully prepared for this, but I saw also the horrified expressions of other participants faces...  hihi.

    Welcome to the Parelli center, make yourself uncomfortable!

    Another big request was to not ask or give eachother advice. Very, very, VERY good idea... I didn't have much problems with that, I was at the source of the knowledge, and I would drink only the pure stuff! I think other horse people are crap anyway! (there are some exceptions)

    HOW questions are the only questions that lead to an immediate progress. They can be both principle or purpose oriented, but in any case they have a constructive outcome. WHAT IF...  WHY... can be nice stuff for a discussion, but that's not why you're at the center.
    HOW questions also learn you to think about what you're looking for, what you'd like to change. They set you up to think about a solution instead of accusing the problem.

    Give a man a fish, and he has food for one day, give him a fishline and he's never hungry again.
    That's the whole course idea: they want to turn us into superlearners! They want to learn us to feel frustration because that's what you feel before you change. In the end, it's worth it!

    The most important thing is to keep track of your own progress. We had all the freedom in the world to EXPERIMENT!
    Horsemanship is not science, so you can only find things out if you take that 50/50 chance. Every horse is different... don't make assumptions that a certain arrow won't work!

    As a student you can not make any mistakes. You can only make a mistake if you know better

    The art is to try something and OBSERVE the behavior, REMEMBER it, try another thing and then COMPARE the results.

    The definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result




    01-02-2009 om 17:06 geschreven door Joke  


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    So.... You know the principles by heart... What's next?

    Put your heart in your hands, and your hands on your horse

    It's that simple!
    But if you're just like me trained to be difficult, only the difficult things are simple, and the simple things difficult.
    No worries! Parelli has a real nice way to deal with difficult people, so if you're difficult or really all new with this stuff you should immediately visit www.parelli.com.

    Let's continue...
     
    The first course is called "Liberty & horse behavior". It's a 2 week course, the first week we learned all about the principles, the second week we added some purpose to those principles. In the next posts I'll describe day by day what we've been learning.


    01-02-2009 om 16:24 geschreven door Joke  


    28-01-2009
    Klik hier om een link te hebben waarmee u dit artikel later terug kunt lezen.The eight principles
    Since I came home from the states I discovered I have a new understanding about the Parelli program, I made big steps towards becoming more of a horseman. That means that instead of just a human, I spent some very intense moments sharing and understanding a horse in such a manner that this deeper understanding brought a little piece of 'horse' into my way of thinking, feeling, acting and dreaming. To me this has been a magical experience, and I am quite sure it's one of the most valuable events that can ever take place in a human lifetime.

    I learned so many things at the center that it's very hard to explain it in a constructive and comprehensive manner. I'm still going to try anyway...

    Let me start by trying to convince you of the importance of principles:
    A basic ingrediënt of Parelli is CHANGE, what leads in a positive way to PROGRESSION.
    There are 2 ways you can change: you can change the way you ACT or you can change the way you THINK. They both affect eachother.
    But if you want to change the way you act without knowing why, chances are after a while you'll just continue with the same old behavior.. because you lack the motivation and the clear understanding to practice the new behavior long enough to make it feel natural to you and eventually master it.
    If you want to change the way you think without also supporting it with acting in a different way, you never give yourself the chance to experience the new behavior, and reinforce the idea when it works or replace the idea by another when it doesn't work.
    Either way, if you want to change your behavior successfully, you need to have a clear, structured motivation: A PRINCIPLE.
    Principles are the roots, the foundation, of everything you ever want to achieve in your life.

    In the Parelli Programm, there are only 8 principles. If you have a true understanding of those principles, you dream, feel, act and think like a horse. Then there's more than just a horse and just a human... there's horsemanship.

    EIGHT PRINCIPLES

    1. Horse-Man-Ship is natural

    2. Dont' make or teach assumptions

    3. Communication is 2 or more individuals sharing and understanding an idea.

    4. Horses & humans have mutual responsibilities.

    5. The attitude of justice is effective.

    6. Body language is the universal language.

    7. Horses teach humans & humans teach horses.

    8. Principles, pupose & time are the tools of teaching.

    I'll explain them in my next posts, but I suggest you learn them by heart. To me, these principles are the beginning, the middle and the end of everything I do with horses, and it makes everything so much easier... I can guarantee your horse is going to adore you when you master these principles...

    28-01-2009 om 15:17 geschreven door Joke  


    Klik hier om een link te hebben waarmee u dit artikel later terug kunt lezen.Current situation
    *Car broke... at the garage... is going to cost me WAY TO MUCH money for such an old WRECK... but I don't yet have a job, so the damn thing has to run untill it dies... I am SO pissed off!
    *Still looking for a job, the chat with the Proximus guy didn't go so smooth, but I still have 2 other applications running.
    *Next week I have the evaluation test for the police.
    *I want to go to the nice and warm fitness center... but I first have to wait untill my car is fixed.

    And I'm dreaming about my own appartment, a fine job, a nice new car and especially A HORSE!
    Last weekend we went for a walk with Crumpie and got a little bit lost. At the end of an agricultural we found a beautiful pasture, with an even more beautiful 2yr old warmblood in it. She was alone, and came floating towards us, in a nice flowing trot. My heart melted!

    28-01-2009 om 13:57 geschreven door Joke  


    22-01-2009
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    Obama is the official president of the United States...

    And I am officially subscribed for the first recruitment test of the police!
    I am also training pretty hard to run longer and faster... Yesterday I ran 1600m in 12 minutes, which is an average of 8,5km an hour... this after only 12 days of training...

    Yes! We can!

    22-01-2009 om 15:47 geschreven door Joke  


    13-01-2009
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    Yes! I finally have an appointment with a serious company!
    They're looking for extern sales people for a phone company. If the first months go well I get a car.. Sounds interesting!

    Yesterday I went body jamming, it was fun! This evening I go to the yoga class... becoming balanced!

    13-01-2009 om 15:27 geschreven door Joke  


    12-01-2009
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    Hi everybody!

    2009 will be the year of building emotional, mental, physical and financial fitness...
    I am still looking for a job, which is actually more difficult than I thought at first. There are a lot of crappy jobs, but I am looking for something that looks nice on my resume... but I guess I'll just have to hang in there, and keep on looking.

    So my days were quite lazy, altough I have the time to get things in order, like paper work for instance.

    BUT the main thing is that I took a Gold Pass at Health City, a very nice fitness center! For the next 12 months I can go everyday to train, lift, run, swim, cycle, jump, and all that stuff... and afterwards I can take a shower, sauna, steam bath or relax under a solar screen
    I wonder how much better I will look and feel next year

    I started just this Friday, so I only did the Cardio training, but after the tests with my consultant next week i can start doing the strenght exercices.
    Tonight I am going to do my first lesson of Body Jam, that's a work out on music...

    I hope I can maintain this standard of happiness I feel right now, that I find my way into a job that suits me, so I can buy a horse in a reasonable period of time...

    Horses give you the feeling that everything else is less important.

    12-01-2009 om 16:14 geschreven door Joke  


    03-01-2009
    Klik hier om een link te hebben waarmee u dit artikel later terug kunt lezen.The results of the tests
    Apparently, I had to do more than just the test of French... in the end I spent all afternoon making tests...
    It's been a while since I challenged my brain, so I was out of my comfort zone. At the end of the day I called the agency, and I was positively surprised by the results:

    (Maximum score is 5)
    English: 4
    French: 2,5
    Calculating: 3
    Logical thinking: 3
    Speed and accuracy: 3
    Understanding a written explanation: 4

    I had a special remark for my test of English: I had 74 correct answers out of 80 questions! Yihaa!

    These results are really okay, so they're going to introduce me at Proximus, which is the biggest phone company in Belgium..... I'm looking forward to it!

    03-01-2009 om 13:45 geschreven door Joke  


    02-01-2009
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    What have I been doing the past 2 weeks?

    *recovering from a major jet lag.
    *celebrating christmas here at home with my family.
    *getting my application forms ready to send.
    *celebrating new years eve eating gourmet and stone grill, and afterwards we went dancing a little bit. It was fun!
    Today I have an online test French, later they will call me for which vacancies I'm suitable. Interesting!

    My dog is ill... she probably won't make it much longer. We've been to the vet 3 times already, and she's still very sick. Monday we'll go to take pictures of her intestins.

    02-01-2009 om 12:12 geschreven door Joke  


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    Hi!

    I wish all the readers of my blog a happy, healthy and horsey 2009!

    02-01-2009 om 12:06 geschreven door Joke  




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