In this post i am going to reflect about the lesson that give us information about how obstacles are in the way of good and effective communication:
There are 3 specifiek obstacles in our live.
1. We are generally not fully aware of the norms,values and rules that we learnt during our socialization. We can see that every individual has his/her own perspective and every individual has his/her interpertation of everything around them. For example the subject racisme, In our community there are different groups that are pro or contra about the migration here in Belgium. This different groups want that everybody see what they see.
2. People believe that their opinion,values and norms count for everyone.
3. People fail to make their own values,norms and opinions giving to other people and also fail to give their solutions because we are to slow to understand our own values. I think that when we have sufficient knowledge about our own communicationrules that we can express ourself to the community.
The most natural solution for those problems is to use the 3 Step Method!
Step 1: getting to know ones own norms, values and behavioural codes.
Step 2: getting to know the norms, values and behavioural codes of the others (opinion ≠ fact).
Step 3: determining how to deal with the observed differences in the given situation.
