Last time with the prayer group I experienced very strongly the unity between all people. It just happened. Like that. We intentively make some particular qualities in ourselves grow. At first I was thinking "trust", because I catch myself distrusting from time to time. But then I started to think about my girlfriend and the word "softness" popped in my mind. When I see sterness in her, it means there is still sterness in myself. So we started to pray for softness. It was not clear for who I was praying: me or my girlfriend? And it didn't matter. And I realized that her healing is my healing too. And later on, someone of the group said she was very happy with the softness I put in the group. The moment we started to pray, I immediately experienced softness in the way we were praying. Our voices went soft from the first to the last second.
I'm creating a vision board for the new year 2012. I decided this is the year of healing, compassion, joy and love.