Part 1 Recently I hosted a show on spirit quest radio and discussed why personal development does not work for so many people, and more importantly how to reverse that trend. This is CheckPoint 156-701.70 question the first of two articles looking at this issue more closely. One of the reasons that personal development fails for so many is that they are not emotionally ready to embrace a process that is very much a journey rather than a one time event. You have probably heard of the phrase 'when the student is ready the teacher appears' This refers to our state of emotional and mental readiness. Personal development does not lend itself to the 'I'll try anything once' mentality and yet so many have this attitude and thinking when it comes to personal growth, and then wonder why personal transformation does not take place. Personal transformation cannot take place with this quick fix mentality because it is a process that reaps results over time with consistent application. In the USA series Flash Forward the world blacks out for 2 minutes and in that state many see a flash forward of their future in 6 months. This produces a mixture of reactions when they wake up and starts to alter behaviour accordingly. If you were to have a flash forward of your future in 6 months, based on your current life, what do you think that would look like? Would you like what you saw or would it be a future you would be afraid to own? The other reason that personal development does not produce results is down to what I call poor processing. What do I CheckPoint 156-706.70 question mean by that? Think of the process of eating, which involves absorbing food, breaking it down in the mouth, transportation to the intestines via peristalsis for further digestion. The nutrients are then assimilated to the blood stream, and delivery made to the cells, where it is released as fuel or energy. What is not digested gets passed out as waste. A lot of people go to seminars or courses and absorb a lot of information. Human beings are a bit like a dessert to water when it comes to taking in knowledge. They need some degree of exposure before feeling anything is really going in, as a result of past conditioning. If the format of the presentation is not multi sensory in nature it reduces the degree of absorption since we tend to process information through our six senses, and not just one or two modes. However the biggest area of neglect is the digestive process where information is internalised in a way that can be used as spiritual, emotional, mental and physical energy. This involves the skilled application of knowledge which requires learning experiences to develop the inner muscles accordingly. If we fail to internalise knowledge into skillful application it gets passed out as waste leaving the feeling that personal development does not work, whereas with proper processing the opposite is true. So I leave you with two questions 'What are you ready for where your life is concerned?' and 'how do you rate your ability and capacity to internalise information?' If you honestly feel that you do not process knowledge 250-501 sufficiently then at least you can develop a plan to address the process of internalisation and gain further insight into the power of personal transformation. This is something I address further in my upcoming book The World Is Your Oyster.
Why Rude People Exist and How You Can Deal With Them
It seems like you don't have to go very far, especially these days, to run into a rude individual. It may have happened when you least expected it, and left you absolutely baffled as to CheckPoint 156-315.71 question why you were the one caught in their cross-hairs. These smilingly small encounters with the rude kind can result in positive and negative outcomes that can alter our destiny, and in more severe cases, even change our identity. The truth is that we can only work with what we have provided in our mental toolbox to overcome an obstacle such as this. If there is an instruction manual on how to fix a vehicle, then shouldn't we have a manual on how to fix your life? Everybody can be rude at times, and some more than others. This is due to such factors as parenting style, birth order, coping traits, and roles of the individual. Often times it can be an unconscious response such as someone having a bad day at work, and should not be taken harshly. Then there are those who deliberately try to rob us of our happiness, no matter the circumstances. There are people right now on this planet who just don't like you based solely on your personality traits; crazy right? Whatever the situation CheckPoint 156-915.71 question might be, just remember that people are acting out what is going on in their own mind from a past script, and is not worth giving too much attention to. We have trouble giving substance to what it is that we are experiencing, and often take things personally when situations with rude people arise. It's difficult to experience because we have not painted positive pictures in our mind. So how do we do that? It's simple, just interact with the invisible world. You wont be disappointed, as this invisible world wants you to bring about the greatest possibility of who you were meant to become. This intangible world has been interacting with you your entire life, and wants more than anything for you to interact with it. This is where truth and happiness are present, and where obstacles are overcome as quickly as they appeared. These rude people in life have a message for us to discover underneath their rude exterior, and this exists to evolve us to the greatest person we can be. We will continue to run into rude ST0-94X people every now and then in our lives, but that does not mean that we have to fear them. When we change our perspective, we change our attitude, and then we change our lives. All it takes is the opening of the door, the turning of a key to make these realizations become an agreement of your reality.
When We Have the Freed CheckPoint 156-815.70 question om of Choice? In order to find the most unbelievable answers, the solution to every irresolvable problem, all we need to do is turn within. When training in Caycedian Sophrology, we use specific techniques that accelerate and sustain this process. We each hold the most astounding information in our depths; awaiting at every passing moment to be consulted. And what I find to be a crying shame is that most people refuse themselves this privilege out of sheer obstinacy, afraid to crease their' EGO. What seems to profoundly hurt, is to admit that there may exist a more accurate and truthful alternative to the one that is known and has been used for so many years. We actually undergo so much pain and doubt; just because: "familiarity brings comfort". However, if we would only take a moment to r CheckPoint 156-315.70 question econsider and ask ourselves the following questions: "How much of what we (already) know is strictly authentic?" "How much of it really belongs to our individuality?" "And what percentage belongs to some outdated/misunderstood information that we have stored from our childhood observations?" The reason that I say outdated and misunderstood, is because a child does not have the refined and developed means to appreciate pragmatism for what it really is. Commonly we prefer to live in resentment/anger (to remain in a rut) rather than lose points (as some see it). As if our existence is valid by keeping a record of how many times we were right. Such attitudes merely guarantee the regression of our humanness. This is why we say; we were born to make mistakes and errors are only human, providing that we learn from them. And it is such a wonderful illumination, such a feeling of freedom, when we discover ways to make the most of our slip-ups. As humans we are the only living ST0-91X species who are conscious of our consciousness and there is nothing that saddens me more than when I detect how so many people carry such powerful potentials straight to their' grave. For our endless capacities will and do remain dormant, if we do nothing to put them into play.
Now you may be asking yourself 'what is the slight edge, and why should I use it?' That's a great question and I have a great answer: because when you learn what the principle of the slight CheckPoint 156-915.70 question edge is and begin to use it every single day, your business will begin to explode before your very eyes. So to begin with, I first learned about the slight edge from the guy who actually wrote the book on it (literally), Jeff Olsen. Jeff took almost 200 pages to fully explain this principle in great detail in his book, but I will break it down within a few paragraphs for you. The first thing you must know before we go any further is that anything you do in life will have consequences or outcomes. Those outcomes can be good or bad. Any action you take will have a reaction and as long as you understand that right up front, you'll go a lot further. If you've followed me for or my training for any length of time, then you know that I always teach people to always be in a state of motion or action for a lot of reasons. First, if you school yourself into being a person who takes consistent action, you will achieve ten times as much as someone who doesn't. The principle can be summed up in one CheckPoint 156-816.61 question basic statement: by taking small seemingly insignificant actions on a daily basis you will propel yourself towards massive results in time. Now here's the real catch. Whether you take very little action, or all out massive action each day, the slight edge is working. It is either working for you or against you. So if you are used to doing very little but expecting a lot in your life or business, then you can expect to have zero to very little in terms of results. However, as a person who is taking a lot of action to grow their business each day, you'll have the results you aspire to have. Let me give you an example of how to get this principle working for you, not against you! I'll use advertising as an example. If you get in the habit of placing a few new ads every single day, whether it seems like it's doing any good or not, you'll have an 510-022 income that will be the envy of others. Take a minute right now and decide what are the three most important things that you could do to help grow your business every day and then begin to do them without exception and never look back.
If there is one thing that most of us are consistently taught when we were growing up, it is that we should never give up, no matter how hard a particular task is. This task can be anything, such as playing a game, wanting CheckPoint 156-315.65 question to own a successful business, studying for a driver's license, and any other dream that we might be looking to make a reality. Now while this has been constantly hammered into our heads, have you ever wondered why you should never quit? To truly understand the power of never quitting when trying to accomplish something, it is important to understand why you get that feeling of wanting to give up. In most cases, it is usually because somewhere along the line a particular task becomes too difficult. When this occurs, you naturally become frustrated, angry, and disheartened. In addition, there is also the possibility that the people around you begin to lose faith in you, thus making you feel even less capable of accomplishing a particular task. When all of this happens, the first natural response is to quit. Now if you look at all that has happened, everything that led you to quitting was a negative thought or action. In most cases, your decision was based purely CheckPoint 156-910.70 question on emotion and nothing else. What you do not realize is that by quitting, you are actually stopping yourself from moving forward and learning something new. Instead, you are only ever able to accomplish something up to that point and no more. When a particular thing becomes too challenging for you, it simply means that you are entering a situation where you are finally able to learn something brand-new. So in fact, you should see these extremely challenging situations as something exciting, because it means that you are finally reaching an area of your life that is now allowing you to learn something new. Instead of quitting, you should calm yourself down, forget about what other people think, and look at the situation from an objective point of view. By taking this approach, you will find that problem solving becomes easier, which in turn will help you to figure out how to deal with this new situation that is now facing you. Once you do this, you will then be able to learn how to deal with it effectively, 510-702 even if it means you have to fall down a few times before getting it right. The best part is that once you figure it out, only then will you truly understand the reason why you should never quit, no matter how challenging a situation seems.
With such a high rate of rape and assault incidents in the United States, why is it that more women don't take self-defense courses or purchase self-defense products? Possibly because no one likes CheckPoint 156-215.65 question to think about being the victim of a rape or other violent assault. If you take a course in self-defense, you are made to face the possibility that one day you may be attacked and will need to defend yourself. So why is it that we don't want to face that possibility? Fear and denial are debilitating emotions that keep us from exploring our universe, expanding our horizons and facing the unknown with confidence. If you can somehow get past the fear that keeps you from facing the reality of the evil in our society, you can work to gain the confidence that will help protect you against that evil. Taking a course in self-defense plus acquiring non-lethal self-defense weapons are 2 major contributors to not only helping you exude an aura of confidence, but being able to take control of any situation where you are feeling threatened. There are many martial arts type methods, street fighting defenses, and close combat fighting methods to choose from. There are online videos, DVDs you can order, and self-defense classes right in your home town. If you feel too self-conscious to go to a class, or just can't find the time, search online for something that might get you interested in learning how to protect yourself. You may find that once you get started, you will want to continue to learn other methods. It cannot CheckPoint 156-215.70 question be overstated how important it is for women to learn to protect themselves. Young women and teen-age girls are at the worst risk of being assaulted. Girls may be too young to carry pepper spray or a stun gun, but they are not too young to learn self-defense methods that will boost their self-confidence and teach them awareness. Some women think they are not strong enough or are too small or overweight or whatever to join a self-defense class. This is not true. Many self-defense methods teach you how to overpower your attacker not by strength but by knowledge of where and how to surprise him with moves that he would not be expecting and that will totally disable him. These methods, combined with pepper spray or a stun gun, would keep so many women from being attacked and raped that they really should even be taught in schools. When we women start fighting back against those who think they can use their pure strength to overpower us, maybe we can start to turn the tables on some of the evil in this world. Rape is about power, not sex. If we take the power away from the assailants, we stop the rapes. Women need to start taking that power away from those men who choose to use it to violate all moral codes. We can fight back and we can win, with self-defense methods and self-defense weapons. Using those tools to your advantage should you ever need them will honestly save your life and hopefully put a criminal behind bars. What have you got to lose by learning to protect yourself? A lot less than what 510-888 you could lose if you DON'T learn to protect yourself. It's far better to have the tools and never need them, than to need them and not have them. That could make the difference between life and death.
Working Mum and the Art of Self Belief: 5 Sure-Fire Ways to Start Believing in Yourself Today
There are many reasons why a working mum's confidence may need an extra boost. Whether the lack of self-belief stems from an extended absence from the CheckPoint 156-515.65 question work place or the fact that work can no longer be the sole focus at every given moment, working mums can find some sure fire ways to kick start that self-belief here. 1. Remember that your role as a mother provides you with valuable transferable skills. It is all too easy to consider your standing in the work place to have deteriorated since the advent of the children. Forget the common preconceptions and prejudice about mums in the work place and think about all the skills required to be a mother. Multitasking, placation, distraction, sheer oodles of stamina, organisation; the ability to transfer these into any job should make you very proud of your ability as a working mum. 2. Frame your achievements. Think of the moments in your life and career that you are most proud of. Create a very clear picture in your mind as you remember them, how it looked, what the sounds were and how it felt. Before meetings or situations that you need a pep talk, go back to this image and remind yourself of how good you are. 3. Stop the false modesty. Our polite culture, added to a belief that self-confidence can be an unattractive trait, can often lead people CheckPoint 156-100 question to self-deprecate. Not only will this lower your value in others' eyes, over time it will have the same effect on your view of yourself. Practise simply saying 'thank you' when someone pays you a compliment. 4. Visualise future histories. Time, as a working mum. is a commodity is short supply but taking the time to run through future scenarios in your head and visualising positive outcomes is time well spent. You'll aid your preparation and bolster your confidence in the process. 5. Act is if it is so. Even if you aren't feeling confident, act as if you are. In the same way that focusing on smiling can have the positive of making you feel happier, adopting self-assured body language can make you confident. Head high, shoulders back - choose some role models that you'd like to emulate and copy their strong visual cues of internal strength. Initially it will be those around you that become convinced in your projection, but soon enough, their reactions to you will be the impetus to change the way you interact in reply. One final great piece of advice to generate self-belief is to never doubt that there will be things in your life to be celebrated. One very visual way to actualise 510-025 this is to always have a bottle of champagne chilling in your fridge. It may take up precious space from the children's yoghurts and cheese selections but it demonstrates a positive outlook and an undeterred belief in your own ability to make good things happen.
There can be many reasons why someone starts to feel depressed. Sometimes for no apparent reason a black cloud may descend and nothing can help it to go away. A person may descend into a terrible mood CheckPoint 156-110 question and feel unable to do anything, become almost immobile from those feelings. Then it may lift just as quickly. Depression is a word that we are also familiar with on a more regular day-to-day basis. We may use the word to simply describe a lowering of our mood, but real depression can change people's lives and make them unable to do anything or see a way forward out of the dark place. Let us look at some of the factors that can cause depression. - Circumstantial factors can result in depression. If someone has had many negative and life changing experiences they can result in feeling overloaded and depressed as a consequence. Divorce, bereavement, redundancy can cause people to feel overwhelmed. There is often a feeling of helplessness attached to these events, as nothing can be done to prevent them happening, they have to be endured, tolerated and coped with. Even several good things happening can cause depression. I have had clients who have planned their fabulous wedding, got happily married, moved into a great new home and then berate themselves for feeling unable to shift the dreadful low mood that has descended and become all-encompassing. Sometimes this happens because of all the excitement that was previously being generated, there can be a sense of nothing exciting to look forward to now that it has all finally happened, sometimes it can be because of all the changes and adaptation required to start a new way of life. - Learned behaviour can be a factor in depression CheckPoint 156-915.65 question that comes about from long-term bad treatment. If a person is regularly told that they are no good, that they will not amount to anything, that other people are better or more important than them, then it can be easy to understand why that person eventually feels depressed. Even when those words have not actually been said if a person is especially sensitive they may feel that they have been implied. If they see others being favoured, getting better results, being treated with greater kindness, they may feel that this is because they are unintelligent, inconsequential and insignificant. They will have low or even no expectations from themselves and from life. 'You'd all be better off without me', 'no one will miss me' can be phrases felt to be especially true with people in these situations. - Chemical imbalance occurs when someone has a pre-disposition to depression from a genetic cause or where a person's brain functioning has changed through ill-health or situational events. Medication can often be prescribed by a medical practitioner to help support a return to normal functioning. It can help improve a person's mood and outlook and help them cope better on a daily basis. Counselling and hypnotherapy can be very beneficial with depression. Often an improvement in confidence, self-esteem and self-belief makes an important difference to a person's outlook. Helping to heal and move on from past negative experiences, take control and start to remind themselves of what they can achieve, their uniqueness and worth are valuable results achieved from the therapy. These therapies help with stress management, quality of life, treating oneself better. Depressed people often lose motivation 510-308 to do things, sometimes even simple things like taking care of oneself can seem like too much effort. Taking the time to book the first session is often the most important step that a person can take on their road to recovery.
Work-Life Balance: Help Your Employees Juggle It All
After working for the same software company for several years, a young professional moved 90 minutes away from the organization. Instead of resigning or dealing with a grueling commute Certiport IC3-2 question , she proposed that she could come into the office just one day a week, and work the rest of the time from home. The company leadership agreed. The young woman found a mutually agreeable solution that allowed her to achieve work-life balance. Unfortunately, many employees in the same situation wouldn't feel comfortable making such a request. With so many companies doing more with less, employees need to achieve a better work-life balance... and you can help your organization do just that. 1. Find Out What Coworkers and Employees Need Some workers might want a more flexible office schedule, a compressed workweek, job sharing options, or resources for child or elder care. Others may want healthy workplace initiatives like on-site exercise classes and wellness lectures. What can Certiport IC3-3 question you do? Form a work-life committee to survey people and find out their needs. Members can then recommend ways the organization might help employees achieve more balanced lives. 2. Relieve the Pressure of Overtime Demands When demands become rigorous, everyone suffers. What can you do? Do something special for coworkers and employees - like providing a dessert, a dinner, or little thank you gestures. Suggest that dedicated people get an afternoon off... and everyone will be rewarded with a newly refreshed coworker. 3. Set an Example People who don't take time for themselves feel more stressed, and consequently, become less productive at work. What can you do? Don't begrudge people their personal time. Encourage others in showing the proper work-life balance - when your boss leaves at 5:00 p.m. to see her son's soccer game, realize that she should be doing it with pride! Remember to do the following in order to help your employees juggle 510-033 it all: Find out what coworkers and employees need Relieve the pressure of overtime demands
I have learned through the years that one of the most effective ways of dealing with a difficult situation is to be busy or distracted. Too much time to "think" can be very dangerous. The greatest Business Objects QAWI201V3.0 question gift we can give to ourselves is a project or activity that keeps us busy and is extremely pleasurable at the same time. Several months ago, a box of young kittens was left on the side of the road near my summer day camp, Adventure Valley Day Camp. Since there are no coincidences in life, I believe it was meant to be that someone just happened to have walked by and heard the kittens crying in the box. Next thing I knew, I was at the Vet with three young, healthy and adorable kittens. I saw this as a gift from the Universe - a wonderful thing to be busy with and an opportunity to make a difference. It is also remarkable how animals have such a natural ability to show gratitude and appreciation. My Vet told me that there is a desperate need for foster homes for young kittens, and that because of the shortage of foster homes, healthy kittens are being euthanized every day. We immediately transformed my daughter's bedroom and adjacent washroom into a kitten nursery - litter box, food and water bowls, a cozy pet bed and plenty of toys. The kittens required a lot of time and attention, but they were an absolute joy. Within a few weeks they were chubby and old enough to be adopted. We found wonderful homes for them and have heard from the families that they are precious and cherished pets. We have since then become an official kitten rescue home and received a new litter of 4 very young kittens who were left in a box outside of Petsmart. We bottle fed and litter trained these tiny Certiport IC3-1 question kittens, and have watched them grow and develop into absolutely adorable and affectionate little pets. They love playing together and zooming around chasing each other. They are in great health, fully litter box trained, playful, cuddly, entertaining and very social. They love lots of attention! It is a delight to be busy looking after these kittens and I look forward to finding wonderful homes for them. When you first look at a litter of tiny kittens, the work and time needed for their care can seem overwhelming and terrifying. That's where my sense of determination and the desire to take on a challenge jumps in! That sense of empowerment - the idea of helping, doing something worthwhile, achieving and succeeding - fuels me to JUST DO IT! Dream. Visualize. Imagine. Believe. Be persistent. Never give up. I will persevere! I am worth it! I can do it! Nothing builds self-esteem, self-confidence and the feeling of empowerment like a meaningful challenge followed by accomplishment. At the core of the concept of empowerment, is the idea of ability to solve a problem, have a purpose, do something important. Realizing that you have the desire and ability to care for tiny, dependent little kittens, and that because of your tender love and care, they can be healthy, content and playful, is incredibly empowering. I strongly believe that there is nothing that harvests more of a feeling of empowerment than doing something meaningful and important. Ironically, the reality is that you will quickly discover that it's not such a huge undertaking after 510-802 all. When you rescue kittens, you're doing something important. You are giving these animals a second chance. You're keeping them alive. They will cry for you - they need you and they will depend on you - and they will love and appreciate you with unconditional gratitude and love.
Unleashing the Undeniable Power of Persuasion - Letting Out the Great Power of Persuasion
The power of persuasion is at work whether you want your husband to buy you the latest Louboutin pumps or whether you want your boss to Citrix 1Y0-700 question promote you. Persuasion is a kind of social influence. And this influence operates whenever a person is influenced by another, be it in the realm of thought or feeling or action. There are quite a number of techniques available for influencing the thoughts and actions of another person. There is no exception to the rule of each of us being capable of using the techniques of persuasion. What is needed in plenty of accurate knowledge about the moves necessary to successfully influence the minds of others in terms of what they think or how they feel about things. The idea of persuasion is a widely accepted fact in today's world. It is especially used in the field of marketing. Different industries employ the techniques of persuasion to make sure that their products sell well in the marketplace. The following elements of the different kinds of techniques can provide you with a good overview: 1. The value of reciprocity - There really is no free lunch, therefore, it makes sense that we get what we have given in return. This kind of reciprocity is at work in the use of free samples. One a person accepts a free sample, they are very likely to buy it not to feel obligated in any way or Citrix 1Y0-800 question shape or form. 2. A sense of commitment - this has to do with our willingness to honor commitments we have made concerning things that we value. This is a matter of social responsibility. 3. Belief in social proof - this has to do with what other people are doing, and the feeling that if they are doing it, we should follow suit. If many people are doing something, that seems to prove that it is the right thing to do. This can actually make a person do something that they may initially be indifferent to. 4. The presence of an authority figure - When someone with authority speaks about something, that something gets the proper respect and trust. When, therefore, someone speaks with authority about certain things, the listeners may quickly assume that that person knows what he is talking about, and therefore what that person says looks like a fact. There are different ways with persuasion. You can appeal to reason or you can manipulate emotions. There are also strategies that can work 090-600 well; body language is a good example that salespeople have been using everywhere in the world. Persuasion should, of course, be regulated in the proper ways. Since there is power in persuasion, using it with a sense of responsibility is very important. The consequences of this should be acceptable.
Use the "FA" to Get Anybody to Do Whatever You Want Anytime, Every Time
In my last article I talked about "the Pickup Artist loophole" and briefly introduce you to the FA, Friendly Assertiveness. Now I'm going to elaborate on it so Citrix 1Y0-308 question you can get almost anybody to do whatever you ask in a friendly way, by being friendly assertive I like to call it, instead of dominantly aggressive. Example: If a stranger were to ask you... A.) in a dominantly aggressive manner "Give me that water!" or B.) "Could you give me that water please?" in a friendly yet assertive manner (Or heck even "Could you please go across the room to get me a water?") ...which one are you more likely to comply to if you had to choose? Probably Choice B because you didn't feel aggressively threatened over losing dominance as in Choice A; besides it's hard to be rude to somebody who is friendly or else you would be perceived as an @$$hole and people around you would reciprocate by being rude as well and avoid you, while in choice A you would have reacted with defiance and that would have been ok by them being dominantly aggressive in trying to push you. There is never anything wrong with being friendly. In this case with them being friendly, they eventually got what they want, which is the water. Here's another example from my life: I was once working behind the bar, and there were 2 bartenders Citrix 1Y0-A19 question I had to deal with. One of them had a way of communicating that was forthright aggressive, "Bring me the bottle over there!" I didn't care if he had been bartending all over Europe for 10 years and he was the best, I was always like,"Who the hell do you think you are?" The second bartender was friendly assertive, being dominant under the radar I like to describe it, "Hey how about you bring me the bottle?" The second bartender wanted me to do something but at the same time still made me feel in control, so I was more likely to comply with the request. The second bartender could even ask me to take out the garbage all the way down to the basement dumpster and then bring back a case of lemon juice, and I still complied to him more than the other bartender, even though it required more work. Weird, isn't it? You can call these aggressive behaviors, but natural human behaviors do not like to be told what to do, especially feel taken advantage of. What I like to say is, control the outcome you want by making them think and feel they are in control. A lot of great natural leaders have this quality of calm friendly assertiveness that is how they get people to follow them, not the arrogant aggressiveness need to feel dominant like a dictator...as I said before nobody like to be told what to do and taken advantage of. And 090-554 combine that with being friendly assertive and giving value to what they lack. When you convey friendly assertiveness combined with giving value to others to what they lack, making them feel their worth, people will magnetically come into your life, and you don't have to do anything.
Using Fear to Unite a Cult Organization, a Team, or Bring Forth a Sense of Nationalism
It is amazing how many times during the day that people use fear to get us to do something? It should be noted that fear is one of the easiest CheckPoint 156-910.71 question motivators of humankind, and that's probably why it is used the most, but it is very unfortunate because fear destroys trust, creates paranoia, and causes people to do things that are not in their best interest, or in the best interests of those they fear. Of course, this is why fear works so good when a group or a cult is trying to develop its team. Generally it picks an enemy, and it tells you that you must fear this enemy, and that "WE" must band together against "THEM" in a common cause. And generally that common cause is not in your best interest, or the best interest of the scapegoat that you are now to fear. Worse, the Scapegoat now has to defend itself from potential attack, and therefore it ramps up its side to counteract the prevailing force that was created by the original fear campaign - now you have two groups which fear each other, each working with their own base to unite themselves, and to rule over that group. The most interesting thing happens when the fear mongers Citrix 1Y0-259 question on both sides sit down and have a drink together or decide to play cards. You see, they find come camaraderie in each other because they are both using the same methods to control their people. In fact they have more in common with themselves than with the very people they have put into a state of fear so they can control them. Are you beginning to see the problem? This is not to say that there are not things that you should fear in life, some fear is actually good, it will keep you from doing things that could cause you great harm. Nevertheless, you need to be able to recognize when people are using this tactic or fear campaign to get you to dump what is in your best interest, in trade for the mission that they are trying to fulfill. Because if you don't you end up living your life for something else, and for someone else's gain, and your loss. Perhaps the loss of money, time, happiness, and even your life experience if things get out of and. Indeed, I'd like you to sit back and think of all the fear being 090-552 used today to manipulate your mind and get you to do the things that take you away from what's really important. Indeed I hope you will please consider all this and think on it. And as always if you have any comments, questions, or concerns please shoot me an e-mail. Don't be afraid.
Using the Law of Attraction to Be Healthy and Stay Healthy
This always surprises me. People always ask about manifesting wealth but what about asking the Law of Attraction for good health too? Health is wealth - heard that one before? Well CheckPoint 156-715.70 question its true isn't it? If you think about it for a minute you'll agree that if you are ill at home or in hospital, how's that going to help you with your work.. you just can't work if you're laid up in bed can you? If you're feeling like 'death warmed up' how can you possibly do a good job and concentrate on things properly as you should? The Law of Attraction gives us what we ask for, so why not make health the No.1 priority. If you're blessed with a healthy lifestyle everything else falls into place anyway, so health before wealth. Most Vision Boards Don't Ask! Ever used a vision board? Just in case you haven't or never even heard of one before, let me briefly explain what they are; A vision board is a simple collection of images and affirmations that you can use to empower the Law of Attraction to provide CheckPoint 156-215.71 question you with what you think of and wish for. One problem though, is that on occasions, they are not correctly made up or used as they should be. They seem out of balance. I see an awful lot of people's vision boards in my travels; they fascinate me what people ask for on them. Okay, you see nice pictures of gleaming red sports cars, piles of bank notes, beautiful beachside homes but rarely any images that relate to having good health. This beats me! Ask the Law of Attraction for everything you desire, not just wealth and possessions but to have and keep your health in top condition too. A life of poor health must be unbearable. Go and Double Check so the Law of Attraction Knows What You Want So if you use a vision board, go take a proper look at it and ask yourself if you have got everything on there that you should have. Do you have images of happy smiling doctors, or healthy athletes or pictures of people enjoying healthy activities? Are your affirmations reading how 090-075 they should be? Visualize and keep in mind your long term goals and the Law of Attraction will surely respond if you feel, want and desire that objective hard enough; but be sure to ask for health as well as wealth as the Universal Law will only respond to your thoughts and desires.
Volunteering is catching on around the world as millions of people choose to donate some of their time and skills to community service projects. Volunteering is an excellent way for anyone to CheckPoint 156-707.70 question give something back to their community while getting the opportunity to meet new people, learn valuable skills and make a positive contribution to society. It can also be a great opportunity for individuals to spice up their resumes. In both developing and developed countries, the need for volunteers in a variety of fields I great. 2011 is the European Year of Volunteering, which serves to highlight the contributions of organizations across the continent who are working to bring more exposure to the important work that volunteers do on a daily basis and encourage more people to get involved. Those who have never volunteered may think that it is too impractical for their busy schedules, but there are many options to volunteer which don't require a huge time commitment. For example, an effective way to get more out of your volunteer experience with less time commitment is to combine your goals when looking for volunteer opportunities. Ideally, you should seek out volunteer opportunities CheckPoint 156-708.70 question which will benefit other areas of your life in a variety of way. For instance, someone who has a goal of losing weight bay be able to find an active volunteer opportunity which offers them the chance to get more exercise. A good example would be volunteering to clean up a park or work with children. Those who are interested in improving their cooking skills by be able to find a volunteer opportunity at a local food bank where they can also learn to cook. Another key to successful volunteering is to avoid over committing if you have a busy schedule. Sometimes, community service ideas are easy to come by. Perhaps there is a park in your neighborhood which is in a state of obvious disrepair. Broken equipment, trash, and other obvious signs of neglect are a perfect opportunity for volunteers to organize and spruce it up. Simple work such as planting trees, clearing trash and recycling it, or even planting a garden to share the produce with those in the community are all great ways to 090-161 get involved in making your community more beautiful and inspiring others to do so as well. These type of projects can be organized locally and don't require that you go through a large non profit or other organization.
A recent bout of feeling drained and stuck resulted in this article coming to life. There I was in the midst of focusing on my vision, nurturing my business, growing my dreams...then IT began to surface. Beginning as CIW 1D0-470 question it typically does for me, I began to notice the theme of "scattered and overwhelmed." There seemed to be no way around it. I knew that I had been here before, fighting my stuck points, struggling with a cycle of frustration and judgment. I must admit it was definitely an old pattern. And then something clicked. I decided to write about it. I was receiving the precious reminder that it is not about finding a way AROUND our stuck points. It is more about MOVING WITH AND THROUGH THEM in a mindful way, giving up the struggle and surrendering to the process. I am truly grateful for this reminder and am now choosing to call it a sweet surrender. Believing it is time for us to fully experience the sweetness of our stuck points, I would like to offer the following tips for practicing the art of surrender. Honor your experience. Decide how you want to BE. Release judgment. Be awake for the message. Listen to your body. Reach out for support. In closing, I encourage you to keep the following quote by Karla McLaren in mind. "Emotions are celebrated and repressed, analyzed and medicated, adored and ignored..but rarely, if ever, are they honored." May you be inspired to honor your stuck points as the sacred experiences that they are in your journey. The Art of Surrender A recent bout of feeling drained CIW 1D0-442 question and stuck resulted in this article coming to life. There I was in the midst of focusing on my vision, nurturing my business, growing my dreams...then IT began to surface. Beginning as it typically does for me, I began to notice the theme of "scattered and overwhelmed." There seemed to be no way around it. I knew that I had been here before, fighting my stuck points, struggling with a cycle of frustration and judgment. I must admit it was definitely an old pattern. And then something clicked. I decided to write about it. I was receiving the precious reminder that it is not about finding a way AROUND our stuck points. It is more about MOVING WITH AND THROUGH THEM in a mindful way, giving up the struggle and surrendering to the process. I am truly grateful for this reminder and am now choosing to call it a sweet surrender. Believing it is time for us to fully experience the sweetness of our stuck points, I would like to offer the following tips for practicing the art of surrender. Honor your experience. Decide how you want to BE. Release judgment. Be awake for the message. Listen to your body. Reach out for support. In closing, I 050-891 encourage you to keep the following quote by Karla McLaren in mind. "Emotions are celebrated and repressed, analyzed and medicated, adored and ignored..but rarely, if ever, are they honored." May you be inspired to honor your stuck points as the sacred experiences that they are in your journey.
We invite you to become the person you dream to be! For many of us there is a stark difference between how the world sees us and how we may see ourselves. Oftentimes, we are very lenient CIW 1D0-460 question and forgiving when it comes to our own shortcomings and yet we perhaps over inflate our strengths. It takes honest self-reflection and introspection to fairly gauge our personalities and character. In truth, our personalities are merely what we believe ourselves to be through the false senses of the ego. This is part of the goal of meditation, which is to step "outside ourselves" for a moment to realize our True Essence, which is a perfect spirit. This proves to be a challenge for most of us because we've been conditioned for so long to identify with our thoughts, our jobs, our families, our achievements and so on. However, these are truly part of the delusion of attachment and identification with matter. You are no more these "identifiers" than you are the clothes you change each and every day! Most of us feel though that if we didn't have these personifications to make us different from everyone else then we would somehow cease to exist. In fact, the opposite is true. The more we are able to disassociate with the ego the freer our consciousness becomes and we are able to embody all the possibilities of nature without having to be limited by it. This is a process that CIW 1D0-450 question doesn't typically happen overnight. There are yogic techniques to help one to still the restless mind and thus remove some of the binding veils that mask our true infinite potential. If this is an important hurdle you are currently facing in life then I encourage you to seek good readings on this subject matter. I also warn you to not become obsessed or consumed with every new fad or book that comes out "selling you" on how to become the perfect person. This is not what personal transformation is about. You can read books till the end of time and they won't do you as much good as simply taking the time to look within and be alone in quiet contemplation. Truthfully, you don't have to "become" anything rather simply "realize" what you truly already are! Life is merely an outward reflection and expression of your consciousness, your thoughts and your actions. The best way to modify these variables is to learn to become still, seek the silence within your being and soon you'll be able change certain behaviors because you will no longer see yourself as your behaviors but begin to understand that what you experience is a result of your choices which reflect your 050-710 behavior. Mahatma Gandhi perhaps said it best: "Your beliefs become your thoughts,your thoughts become your words,your words become your actions,your actions become your habits,your habits become your character,your character becomes your destiny!"
There is an old saying that when two people meet for the first time, that there is really six beings in the room. I am going to break this down a little here. From each person comes three beings, one is the being standing Citrix 1Y0-A24 question there, one is the way the person sees themselves, and the last is the way they want to be seen. It may sound funny in a way but, when broken down it is true. The person standing there is technically the one everyone meets and interacts with. Thus being said, the other two pretty much hold you back, reason being, if you cannot bring all of them together to form the same mental picture, you will be going in three different directions. The real question in all of this is "how do I get them to all go in the same direction?" It is called learning, trying, and adapting. There are many ways that you can learn what you are trying to accomplish. Believe me, you are not the only one out there who is trying to or have already achieved that goal. Just some basic research can spark something in your mind that you did not even know was there. There are many ways to obtain this info, internet, social media, books, but the best resource is other people. You can find a way to connect with people i.e.: Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, ect. Even doing a simple Google search will result in many ways you can get the information you are seeking out. Once you obtain all the information you think you need, you need to start focusing on how to use it. This is also a good time to use Google, reason being, there are many different ways you can put yourself out there with the knowledge you obtained. This is where the trying part comes into play. What I mean by that is simply, what works for one person may not work for another person. CIW 1D0-510 question For instance, my biz partner is very comfortable in front of a camera, talking and what have you but, I am not good with doing a scripted type of thing. After trying many different ways to make something stick, from cue cards to doing take after take, we seen that if we do these videos without writing everything we are going to go over and just run with it on camera; we have an easier time making the information videos we make. The thing is, we had to try many different ways to get to where we are now. Once you find a way to do whatever you want to keep moving forward, stay with it. You cannot give up if something does not work. Now the last thing you need to understand is that you have to be adaptable. Remember something that works for you might not work for the other person you are meeting with. You have to be able to adapt to the situation at hand. Just think of how many things you tried before you got to where you are now. If you plan on working with other people, you need to be able to adapt. When you start to work with other people, you will start the process over again but, it will be much easier. The reason for this is that you will learn from each other. Your team will be working together to move forward.Now once you are able to do this, you will be able to move in one direction: forward. When you meet someone, you will not be three beings, you will be one. This is because you will already know how to accomplish what you are trying to do. Thus being said, you will still have the two other beings with you but, they 050-701 are going to be the same being as the main one standing there, YOU. You will not be moving in three different directions. You will move in the same direction because you will be in tune. Thank you very much. Enjoy. Mike Coluccio.
As a child there will have been times when we felt that we were being unfairly treated and so complained to a parent or teacher in the hope that they would intervene on our behalf. As we got older we may have complained Citrix 1Y0-A21 question to other young people about various grievances that we shared. Adults often look at complaining as being assertive and trying to resolve an unfairness or a dispute of some kind. They often feel that complaining is proactive and positive rather than a negative activity. Done constructively complaining can provide useful feedback and an opportunity to put right a wrong. Often in business it can be hard to get a true sense of a customer's experience. Many companies try to encourage feedback before there is a need for a complaint. They use comments cards on tables in restaurants, email and phone calls to gauge how their customers felt about their interaction with the business. Some companies will have suggestion schemes where staff can report/comment/pass on their ideas, thoughts and observations about how the business could be improved. Personal life too can sometimes require a need to complain. We may on occasion feel that we are being taken for granted, treated badly, not happy with the way our life is going. Complaining can be an assertive way of bringing the matter to other people's attention before it becomes too serious. Let's look at some of the most effective ways to complain. - Clearly identifying the problem has got to be the first step. There may be many issues and examples of poor treatment Citrix 1Y0-A18 question but, after consideration those examples may turn out to be about one or two key points, like good manners or communicating well. Rather than becoming absorbed in the many different examples it can be more constructive to start with outlining why you are raising the matter, what you are unhappy about. - Identify what you want as an outcome. Many people are suddenly confounded when asked what they want as a result from a complaint. Consider what would be a satisfactory recompense that would help you to feel better. Some people just want an acknowledgement of how they are feeling. Some people may want more help and support or recognition of their efforts. - If you think that it might be a tough situation compile a log, a diary. Collect receipts as a reinforcement of your complaint. Having evidence shows that you are serious, that you mean business and that the matter is important to you. - Be polite but firm. Keeping calm enables you to remain in control of yourself and your temper. That way you can think before you speak and not say or do anything rash that you may later regret. - If you are complaining about a business or service firstly identify that you are speaking to a decision maker. It can be frustrating to explain in detail why you are complaining only to have to go through it all again because you have spoken to the wrong person. - Follow up in writing. There may be times that you need proof that you have made contact and started a complaints procedure. Having written proof is a positive way of identifying what you said and when you said it. - Keep a sense of humour and perspective for your own sanity. In any complaint situation, whether it 050-708 be relationship, family or service based, humour and perspective allow you to keep a sense of proportion and not allow something to be blown out of proportion. Few things are serious enough to become stressed and obsessed about.
Some people shout, stamp their feet or nag in a bid to get what they want. Other people may eventually give in as way of getting some peace and quiet in their lives, but they have not done so happily. Any Citrix 1Y0-A23 question perceived victory has been won at a cost to the relationship and to the harmony of the environment around them. Let us look at some beneficial ways to get what you want and have your own way. - Pay attention to the situation as it develops. Listen to what others are thinking, saying and doing. What matters to them, what are they wanting to do? By being attentive you form a clearer view of other peoples attitudes. Finding out what matters to others is important. It is information that you can use as a subtle negotiation tool, something to trade with. - Demonstrate that you are prepared to compromise. Hearing what others want and showing that you respect them proves that you are not acting solely out of self-interest. Often people can become stubborn if they feel that one person is being a bully or trying to ensure that they constantly get all their own way. By referring to their wants and showing that you have compromised some of your own they will feel better inclined to listen and try to accommodate you. - Skillful negotiation is the art of trading something that does not really matter to you for something that does matter. Treating something that Citrix 1Y0-A04 question does not really matter to you as important, conceding defeat, appearing to give way - albeit reluctantly, showing that you are being magnanimous over one point can give you some latitude to negotiate on something that does matter to you at a later stage. - Do not give the game away. Keep your enthusiasm in check. Showing how important something is to you gives the other person extra power in the situation. Even if we are only talking about wanting the last piece of chocolate cake, showing how much you really want it can make others want it too. Being more blase reduces other people's desire and determination to fight for it. - Stay calm. Appearing desperate or pushy can cause stress and tension to build up. Rash decisions may be made in a bid to end the unpleasantness. Being more relaxed about the process, as if it is not really a big deal, takes the pressure off and allows it to become a more relaxed situation. - Let them think that the outcome was their idea. By guiding the other person into suggesting what you really want you can appear surprised, compliment them on their idea, agree as if you are happy that they have found a way to resolve 050-565 the matter. And if you get what you want it hardly matters that they want to take the credit for thinking of it. - Be nice. Difficult or unpleasant people may get their own way but it leaves a sour taste, an unpleasant atmosphere. Being nice means that the result becomes more of a win /win situation for everyone involved.
