More information about tantra. What is it?

Our body is an enormous reservoir of capacities and energy. Tantra helps to explore these capacities and energy, bring us into contact with them and lets us recognize and feel them. These unconscious capacities are sexually loaded and can be found in our pelvis, between the legs. It’s  a part of the body which still has a hidden and forbidden character in our present-day civilization, covered with a lot of social and religious taboos.They are extraordinary energies that remain unused and even unknown by most of us, but that can be aroused and developed by tantra massage (and yoga).

Tantra frees this energy by massage and lets it flow through your whole body.Tantra dissolves your complete EGO (controlled by our brain, nourished by our education, society and ideology).This dissolving happens just before the orgasm by means of deep, gentle but also intimate touching and rubbing. At that moment we come into contact with our ‘basic being’: our deeper self. We go through an ecstasy that exceeds the ‘I’. Therefore tantra uses the sexual delight to pass the protecting shell of the ego, to set free the rational obstructions.The energy flow of the sexual delight is also called KOENDALINI: a ‘snake’ of sensuality and well-feeling that makes its way up from the pelvis via the dorsal vertebra to the head. At that moment head (ratio) and body (sensuality) are one.

One of the purposes of tantra is to put the ‘I’ (ratio) in contact with the whole body (the unconsciousness). This creates a kind of super intelligence (emotional intelligence).  This is also what yoga aims at, but less sexually and physically.

In tantra we are conscious of as well our male as our female energies, which are both present in our body, whether we are a man or a woman. Tantra regards us as  man and as woman (androgyne) and we accept that. So we come closer to our real nature and we feel more self-confident and open-minded. Without judgement, without pain, without guilt.

Tantra is looking for the ‘higher’, the ‘deeper’, the essentials in our life, in our body. Therefore tantra also has ‘spiritual’ connotations. Some 5000 years ago, in the Far East, tantra was applied in a religious context, in group in the temples. People practiced tantra naked (oil massage). So they set themselves free from day-to-day worries and came in contact with the ‘higher’, in western terminology: the divine that according to eastern philosophy is present in each person (and not high in the sky above us, as is said in Christian, Jewish and Islam religion). But through history our western society has banned sexual energy to the closed cellar of our body of which we have to be ashamed, somewhere deep under the navel. According to the ancient tantra cult that genital area is precisely the place where our primal power, the KOENDALINI, slumbers to be aroused. And that can happen any time and not only when we want to procreate.

Tantra is based on sexual awakening and uses this sexual energy as an entrance to the universe that is stored within us. The divine in ourselves. In order to remain as long as possible on that divine level, the aim is to delay the orgasm as long as possible or to experience the orgasm a second time (which is easier for women than for men).

As a matter of fact tantra is an extension of our consciousness during which the ratio is extended to the ultimate ‘feeling’ and is united to ‘being’ (Zen).

How does it work?

The key that opens the gate to tantra is: open your mind for the other and create the subtile contact so that the energy can flow and be exchanged between 2 or more persons. Between a man and a woman, between a man and a man, between a woman and a woman.

Massage is the ultimate and most complete form of tantric contact. The whole body is touched with respect but in the conviction that a lot is inside which can and may be released. It is as a tribute to our fantastic but undervalued body, the most divine creation…

The female genital organ is called YONI, the male genital organ LINGHAM. Both organs are the instruments of our sexual energy. As well yoni as lingham receive a massage, are stimulated and honoured during a tantra massage.

Tantra massage is the ideal way to experience this vision on our body. Both persons (the one who give and the one who receives the massage) are naked. This creates a feeling of equality in vulnerability, in giving oneself away, in releasing taboos and rational inhibitions. Starting point is respect for each other’s body, sensitivities and limits.

Does this appeal to you? Let me know…or even better: come and enjoy.

Contact: via cell phone (call or text) + 32 (0) 474 82 60 92  Your phone number must be shown. Anonymous calls will not be answered. Discretion assured. The address will be given when you call. Massage is possible on weekdays during the day or in the evening, if necessary also on Saturday.

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Do you want to learn the art of massage?

On request I can teach the basic techniques of (tantric) massage, preferably in pair.  

You and your partner (or occasional partner) can also learn how to massage each other in my massage room, on my massage table. As well men as women are welcome. You will be massaged alternately while the other person is shown how to do it. This last one can then exercise on his partner. We work in sessions of 3 hours. Price can be agreed.