Gossip and hate: "That person is such a pain, what an idiot, have you seen his clothes?, she acts like such a bitch, he really thinks he's something. .he's not etc"

A word is not just a word, a word holds power. Once it's spoken it's out in the world and it starts to live it's own life. It will go from mouth to mouth and run out of control. You can not take back your words. It's out there alive. Shut your mouth, empty your mind. Why do you need to back talk about ppl.. how is this improving your situation? It is not. Do what improves your situation, work on the problem and find a solution. Make it happen. Because gossip creates only hate in others and your heart. Release. You deserve a better life than a life of hate.

"Why would I forgive this person for hurting me? When you had enough you had enough, they need to apologize first, it's their fault"

It leaves you with hate in your heart, causing you emotional pain and spiritual in balance.  If you don't forgive them for their mistakes, forgive them for your inner peace. Not forgiving and hating causes you only pain. You deserve happiness. Release. Forgive.

It's easy to hate and to cause pain.

but it's easy to love all the same.

wich one feels better? Make your choice.

what you send out will return eventually to you

in word but also in mind.