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    17-10-2011
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    An uncle of mine, called Antoon, is married with a woman from the Philippines. They married 30 years ago. At that time, it was a huge change for my family (I wasn't born yet). But things worked out quite well. Things were of course complicated sometimes because the culture of the Philippines is different than ours. There are to start with, less individualistic than we are. As we bring a visit, she cooks huge amounts of food. It is even to much for an entire army. She also sends some money to her family in the Philippines (they are less fortunated than she is). The country is known for doing so. The family is very important, and even the extended family is regarded as close family. Which is a difference with the situation in Belgium.

    A lot of the time, she travels to the Philippines or the US with my uncle to visit some relatives. This was a big adventure for him, being the son of farmers, he had never been anywhere than Bruges or Ghent. The fact that she wants to visit her family so often, is also a sort of pressure, she has the obligation to maintain steady relationships with her family. It also happens the other way around, some of the family members come to visit Belgium.

    One of the things that was quite strange for him was the fact that in Philippinean households woman do most of the work and listen to their husband without complaining (of course, things are getting different concerning the younger generation).  The Philippines is a masculine society (see Hofstede). This is a example of it.


    I certainly hope that they will stay happy because in my opinion, it's a nice couple.


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    10-10-2011
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    Discussion about the "Arab Revolution"

    I had quite a interesting discussion today with a friend of mines, called Abdel. We talked about the situation in the Arab world, that is to say, we talked about the Arab revolution and the underlying reasons of it. The fact that free elections cause victories for islamic parties isn't a coincidence and doesn't mean that those people are hardliners. The fact is that a lot of these people are religious and don't know anything else. They also had bad experiences with more western-oriented idea's (dictators, colonialism etc.). So the Islamic Parties are the only alternative left. The Islamic Parties  are also very active in daily life (for example Egypt and even Tunisia, that is more western-oriented) and help the poor via their social activities. But mostly those parties get to much power and interfere religion into politics, and that's were things go wrong...

    He had another opinion on religion. For us, religion seems not that important anymore, but for many muslims it still is, and we should respect that without losing our sense of reason of course (if Muslims want to live here they also have to adapt there way of thinking to the European Convention on human rights). I also think that we have more in common than we think, and that we should focus on those points and not on our differences. 

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