Loving your partner doesn't cost you a thing, not in a material way.  Because we have all love in our hearts we can just give it freely and at the same time enjoying this giving. There's only one important thing however and that is "love yourself deeply and completely", if you can do that then the sky is the limit to send love to all the haters. It will change the energy levels surrounding you, and with that, every one around you. Have a blessed day !