What is love? A question that is asked so often yet never has a concrete answer.. Why is it so? Why does it happen? And often the frustration: why does it end? Does love always lead to a relationship or can it be without a relationship? Love in friendship? Hate-love without friendship? Honestly it's all possible because love has no boundries.. Love has no logic yet there is some logic behind the behaviour of people.. A boy starts looking at other girls, what does this mean? And why does he do it? Is he no longer in love with the girl he's with? I think he can still be in love with her.. The logic behind his actions have nothing to do with love, this issue lies more with his sexual needs.. Now the girl would think.. "You don't love me anymore!!"And if he responds "I do love you but I have sexual needs.." Does this mean the girl doesn't give him enough? Not really.. He might be turned on by the thought of doing it with multiple people.. The point is, love is not what people think it is.. Love is caring about a person, living with a person, enjoying your time with a person.. Love is saying no to yourself and yes to your partner. Love can be the sweetest candy you've ever tasted but it can also be the box of pandora and haunt your dreams.. Yet you cannot stray away from it. Once you're in it's grasp you are lost within a dream.. A dream your mind creates for you, your wishes, your hopes, ... It's your mind that creates all of this. So love is actually your mind playing dirty tricks on you?.. I believe so, yet why do you fall for one person but not the other? Is it the fairy tale that people make of it? It's the DESTINED person they say.. Again it's the mind vibrating at a same level.. Every person goes through things and every person has it's personality.. When you meet a person that makes your heart beat fast.. It just means he or she is vibrating on the same level, that person wants what you want and have and vice verse. No more, no less. You can keep this in balance for as long as you two progress at the same speed and level.. Should you 'desync' it ends. Should another person enter your life that is a closer 'match' you'll get attracted to him. (Depending on your morals - personality) .. Simply said, love is your brain playing dirty tricks on you. So should you ever feel heartbroken or attracted to the wrong guy/girl.. Change your attitude and mind, the rest will come.
The mind above all, control it and fulfill your every desire.
