You hear people say,that what does not break you,only makes you stronger. Although I hate it when people in general are right,I can't disagree with this fact. When you find the path of life not very much like a speedway,but much more like a cobbled road,it can seem very hard.Everyone is mostly just passing by,leaving you feeling alone.What you do next depends mostly on your own will and spirit. It helps if your not alone.Surround yourself with friends,and people you can trust,I have had problems where I couldn't get out of without them,they will be there for you,and if they ever leave you,just think they weren't real friends,but they did help you. Cry,if you feel like it.No matter where or when or with who,cry your heart out when you need to cry your heart out.It doesn't matter.We live in a society sanitized from grief,and we think crying in public isn't normal.IT IS!Crying is better than agression or violence. Go out,do things you normaly would do.It is not healthy to close yourself in a cocoon. Talk,nothing is more powerful than the art of speech.Even if you can't find the right words,keep talking.Keep venting your thoughts,feelings,fears,emotions. They are all you have,they are all you can give to another.
And then,when you feel better,and you feel more powerful,and supported.Deal with your problems. Deal with whatever issue you have.Some are easier than others,true.But remember,you can do whatever you want,because you want it.
When all your little or big wars are over,look back at yourself,and maybe (probably) you will see,that all is well that ends well,and that wich doesn't break you,only makes you stronger.
My name,as you as an intelligent part of society allready would have figured out,is Lie! If you did not,don't worry,you are as much welcome as anyone else. This is the only time I will like tell you my hobbies and stuff,just like on those dating-extravaganza-chattie-we don't like you if you haven't chatted with us for like the last 5 minutes-damned,I'm so lonely talking to my computer-things. But,here goes nothing! First of all,very oldfashioned but I'm finally coming out! I like to knit....a lot Dancing and singing,not very good but hey,I like....a lot. Writing,........ok,the normal amount. Cooking,.......It's like,loads of fun. Loving the only love of my life........a lot. Eating.......unfortunately,also a lot. Being lazy,sometimes ( a lot) And lots and lots of other stuff. It will come up after a while,but the main course is,I like doing what I like doing at the moment,very chaotic person,me......I like.
