We all want to be loved. We all want our partner to like our friends and vica verca. With every boy/girlfriend we have, we secretly hope 'this is the one'. If all hopes are the same, how is it possible that there still failing relationships? So what about my realtionship?
It wasn't going so well between us. We are very diffrent, you can almost say we are opposits. And I'm not a great believer of 'opposits attract'. He's loud (most of the time), I'm more a listener. He had a diffrent education than me, since he always does what he wants, and I always talk to my parents first. He likes to sleep naked, I like to have something on. This are all little details but still they are a big part of our lifes. A few days ago he said to me 'we need to talk'. I think everybody will agree with me if I say that those words are not the kind of words you want to hear. But he just wanted to talk. Did you ever meet a guy who just 'wanted to talk'. No? Neather did I. Offcours I started to crie when he said 'I don't think we're doing so well...'. I knew that allready, so you think that's nothing new...but I didn't need him to say it out loud. We talked for a few hours. We both said what was wrong in our relationship according to us. At the end of our conversation I was more in love with him than I did before. When you hear something like 'I want to be with you forever and always, I can't be without you' you get pretty happy.
So now we're doing quite allright. He tells me everyday that he loves me and we try to live with each others diffrences. Our relation is all about compromises. I don't know if other people do that in a relationship. Do you have to compromise to be in a good relationship or do you always have to fight for the things you want. And that means you will never be completly happy 'cause nobody is perfect.
I think I prefer my way and I'm perfectly happy with it.
