You just don't do it.

Maybe you think that we are blessed with this kind of hair. But you need to know that it's imossible to just wake up and let your hair be. If we would do that we would look like hobo's. 

Think of it.. You've just tried to get your hair in a good shape for like 45 minutes and then someone who likes your curls brushes them with their fingers. Just because it's nice to touch them. No one want's to have frizzy hair. Maybe I should backbomd your hair. It would give the same result and then you would understand the struggle.

Let this be clear. :)