Humans are unique yet so similiar to eachother. Many dream of the same things, do the same things and feel the same things. Life is unique in a way but which way? Everyone lives their own life thats certain. But saying you're unique and you're the only one that has a hard life? That's false and wrong. Many have walked the road you're walking. Many have faced the same problems and triumphed. All one can do is stay positive and face his/her problems with a smile on their face. You're in control of your life, you're not a black sheep getting all the bullshit. You are a fierce and motivated worrior. Yes, worrior.. You worry too much! Now chop chop become what you wanted to read there, WARRIOR.
Many at my age love the chase.. They are dancing through the fire to catch a flame. Once caught, the flame will burn out. They don't feed the flame because they see another light flickering in the distance, could it be another that'll give them MORE warmth?
Life is all about making decisions.. The famous 'good choice' and the wrongdoer 'bad choice' as most of us call it. Well guess what... There is no good or bad choice! There is only the act of choosing! Every choice has it's reactions and effects, what comes after is or should be a mystery. Yet somethings are predictable, lets say you choose you make a sandwich.. Okay effect is; you got a sandwich and probably you're going to eat it. (Would be dumb of you to leave the sandwich!!!) But my blog is not about sandwiches and all that, no. It's about feelings and thoughts. If you make a decision the outcome is a mystery most of the time.. Life is not something you can do without making choices, so saying life is a mystery is the truth and nothing but the truth. Simply said, you should not fear making choices because you got no clue of whats to come anyways.. Should you make a choice with an outcome you'll regret later on, you'll have the experience of a bad outcome and will do it better next time or even better -> change the bad outcome to a good outcome by making MORE choices!! Note to self: Don't be indecisive! Act on instinct and change what you want to see changed. But don't sit idle wishing for times to become better or choices to present themselves.. Better even, you have all the cards in your hands. Play them before it's game over.
What is love? A question that is asked so often yet never has a concrete answer.. Why is it so? Why does it happen? And often the frustration: why does it end? Does love always lead to a relationship or can it be without a relationship? Love in friendship? Hate-love without friendship? Honestly it's all possible because love has no boundries.. Love has no logic yet there is some logic behind the behaviour of people.. A boy starts looking at other girls, what does this mean? And why does he do it? Is he no longer in love with the girl he's with? I think he can still be in love with her.. The logic behind his actions have nothing to do with love, this issue lies more with his sexual needs.. Now the girl would think.. "You don't love me anymore!!"And if he responds "I do love you but I have sexual needs.." Does this mean the girl doesn't give him enough? Not really.. He might be turned on by the thought of doing it with multiple people.. The point is, love is not what people think it is.. Love is caring about a person, living with a person, enjoying your time with a person.. Love is saying no to yourself and yes to your partner. Love can be the sweetest candy you've ever tasted but it can also be the box of pandora and haunt your dreams.. Yet you cannot stray away from it. Once you're in it's grasp you are lost within a dream.. A dream your mind creates for you, your wishes, your hopes, ... It's your mind that creates all of this. So love is actually your mind playing dirty tricks on you?.. I believe so, yet why do you fall for one person but not the other? Is it the fairy tale that people make of it? It's the DESTINED person they say.. Again it's the mind vibrating at a same level.. Every person goes through things and every person has it's personality.. When you meet a person that makes your heart beat fast.. It just means he or she is vibrating on the same level, that person wants what you want and have and vice verse. No more, no less. You can keep this in balance for as long as you two progress at the same speed and level.. Should you 'desync' it ends. Should another person enter your life that is a closer 'match' you'll get attracted to him. (Depending on your morals - personality) .. Simply said, love is your brain playing dirty tricks on you. So should you ever feel heartbroken or attracted to the wrong guy/girl.. Change your attitude and mind, the rest will come.
The mind above all, control it and fulfill your every desire.
